Before We Begin
Preparing for
Your Reading
A few things that can help you get the most out of our time together and make space for the connection you're hoping for.
Reaching Out to Your Loved One
If there's someone specific you're hoping to hear from, you can reach out to them beforehand. In the days leading up to your reading, speak to them out loud or quietly in your heart:
[Name], I have a reading at [time and date].
I'd love for you to be there.
Do this a couple of times the day before, and again on the day itself. It's simply an open invitation, not a guarantee, but it lets them know you're ready and willing to connect.
During the reading, they may come through or they may not. Evidence-based mediumship works with whoever steps forward from the spirit world and that isn't always who you expect. Whoever comes through will be there because their message is meant for where you are right now.
Before Your Reading
- Payment upfront is standard. It honours the work on both sides.
- There's no need to coach your loved one or ask them to "say this" or "show that." The spirit world communicates in its own way, so trust that.
- Try to come in with an open heart rather than fixed expectations. What you need to hear and what you want to hear aren't always the same thing. And that's okay.
During Your Reading
- Try not to "test" the connection by asking for specific details mid-message. Let things unfold naturally and there'll be time to reflect after.
- If something doesn't land straight away, that's okay. Say you're not sure. Mediumship isn't a perfect science, and sometimes things click later.
- If something does make sense, say so! And if I bring through something I don't quite understand but you recognise it, let me know. That kind of feedback keeps the connection grounded and clear.
A Note on How I Work
Every medium works differently and there's no single "right" way to do this work. Some Spiritualist mediums prefer strict yes/no responses and nothing more. That's a completely valid approach. It's just not my style.
I work in a way that feels natural, conversational and grounded in healing and connection. What matters most to me is that you feel comfortable, supported and genuinely open to the experience.
Wherever you go for your reading, whether it's with me or someone else, I hope it brings you real evidence, real healing and exactly what your heart needs.